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The Great Hope...
Things to Make it Happy
Avoid This!

The Great Hope

The world in which we live is home to billions of people, each with a unique perspective on life and love and the whole point of it all. But of the many things we ALL have in common, the need to find that elusive other... your soul-mate, is what drives us to live. It is our primary reason of existance. For those of you out there reading this that have found yours, I truly do envy you.

Although I've had many great relationships with the opposite sex, I know I am yet to find my soul-mate. But I am patient, I know it will come sooner or later. What are the keys to finding your own special other? Number one, be yourself at all times. Let the world know who you truly are. Only when you are comfortable with who you are, can you open yourself up to a serious relationship that is REAL in the truest sense. Not only does it allow you to find someone who likes the real you, but it feels great also!

Things To Make It Happy

There are many things you can do to make life a little more enjoyable. Here is my list of things that could help YOU!

Relax. When things get too crazy just stop for a second and do something to remind you that your still here on the Earth in Real Time!

Get a really nice boyfriend/girlfriend... I know, some of you are probably saying that there's not any out there... there is, you just gotta know where to look...

Learn to play something. I learned how to play guitar about 15 months ago and believe me, I don't regret it at all. It can inspire a complete rainbow of emotional states when needed. Oh yeah, and it's GREAT FUN!

Get a job where your needed. When you feel that you are making an important contribution to an employer, it's a great feeling. It's great food for the soul when someone is impressed by your efforts...

Walk to the top of a hill or high place in your community and look at all the lights and people moving about. What this is supposed to do for you... I dunno, but it's really cool and breathtaking on a clear night.

Eat rippled potatoe chips with chip dip, rent some old 70's movie like GREASE and just enjoy a night by yourself or with your friends.

Go out and buy all the Pearl Jam CD's and listen to them non-stop for 3 days....

Avoid This!

TV rots your brain and you shouldn't watch ANY of the crap. But no one is going to listen to that advice so at least minimize your exposure to the intelligence sapper. There is very little on the tube I watch... MuchMusic, The Simpsons and the occasional movie but not much else.

Why not read a book instead, hey it doesn't cause brain tumors either!!!

OTHER STUFF TO AVOID

Having impulses to go out and buy Hanson and the Backstreet Boys and listening to them non-stop for 3 days.

Intellectual Terroism from people who try to surpress things they happen not to agree with or don't understand.

Picking your nose in public areas.

Picking at any bodily part in public areas.

Trying to pick up the girlfriend of anyone named Biff, Slugger, Slammer or "Tiny".

Trying to "fit in" where you really don't want to be anyway.

Licking steel poles in Winter.

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